The US Review of Books (USRB) highly praised “Caring for Parents and Other Loved Ones: A Guide for the 21st Century” by Wilson Simmons III

“Caring for Parents and Other Loved Ones: A Guide for the 21st Century” is not only for a time of imminent crisis where we or a loved one are concerned. In our Western society, where aging, illness, the process of dying, and death itself are, in general, related to a denial mentality, a book like Caring for Parents and Other Loved Ones is vital to our life education. Simmons’ guidance addresses many vital issues, such as shifts in physical prowess, senior driving skills, discerning mental skills, and holistic approaches to the countless details of caring for an elderly, ill, or dying loved one. 

Wilson Simmons III is an author, speaker, and fundraising consultant in Los Angeles. He worked in development at the United Negro College Fund as the National Marketing Manager and has been a top sales and marketing professional for a number of Fortune 500 companies. A graduate of California State University, Los Angeles, and a Vietnam War veteran, this is his third book. Wilson’s blog is designed to create an international community of seniors and caregivers sharing information.

This guide for caregivers examines the author’s own process of caring for his mother, which he focuses on throughout the book, as well as information from others who have also gone through such healthcare issues. 

He indicates that the first priority of a caregiver is to take care of oneself while planning for the end of the loved one’s life. The twelve chapters consist of information related to issues such as making the decision to become a caregiver, the need to reach out to others for help, concerns such as diet, exercise, and driving, and recognizing the various health issues that may arise. 

“Caring for Parents and Other Loved Ones: A Guide for the 21st Century” also focuses on the burnout of the provider, how to cope with it, and dealing with various systems such as nursing homes, funeral homes, Medicare, and Medicaid. 

At the end of the book, there are “The Ten Commandments for Seniors,” including having a will, getting a second opinion, and asking questions of care providers. There is also a chart at the end regarding patient medications, healthcare contacts, and a sick room checklist.

Here’s an excerpt from the US Review of Books that highlights:

“The book offers significant information about how to be a helpful caretaker for loved ones, including potential problems and solutions. The chapters end with a summary and “Wise Tips” as related to each topic. Relating the practical information to that of real-life situations as seen through the lens of the author offers a humanizing aspect of the book. Offering various lists, such as asking others for help with various chores, a list and explanation of various health issues, as well as teaching about Medicare and Medicaid, helps the reader to see the basics of caregiving needs clearly. Overall, this is a positive and helpful read.”